The Dragonfly Catalyst

About Me

In 2023, I was pulled back from the brink of destruction.I was dependent on substances to get through the day—burned out, hopeless, and unwell. I couldn’t imagine a future where I was happy.On my darkest day, I had to make a choice: give up, or try.I chose to try.I left my ex.
I started working out.
I quit drinking, smoking, vaping—even caffeine.
I committed to a routine. I built new habits.I picked up tarot and Reiki. I enrolled in courses for life coaching, grief and bereavement support, and eventually personal training.
I burned my life to the ground and started over from scratch.Brick by brick. Day by day. I started healing.It was hard. Some days I barely held it together. But I stopped numbing, stopped running, and did the real work. I learned to be consistent. I learned to set boundaries. I learned how to help myself first—so I could help others without losing myself in the process.That’s how I became The Dragonfly Catalyst™.Dragonflies symbolize death and rebirth. Change and transformation. Messengers from spirit.And a catalyst is something that creates change in something else without itself being consumed.Spiritually, it equates more to being a trigger. A mirror. A chess piece. A ripple effect. Someone who creates change and transformation in others just by being present and authentically themselves. Guided by the divine to hold up the mirror and show people pieces of themselves in you.I am not the only catalyst, but I am The Dragonfly Catalyst.I legally changed my name to fully embody my mission. There is no going back—no forgetting why I'm here and what I do.Now, years later, my goal is to help others do the same:
Reset their lives. Change their behaviors, their beliefs, and their direction.
Transmute what was meant to destroy them into fuel for transformation.Happiness doesn’t have to be a dream. It can be the ground you walk on.I’m not here to save you.
I’m here to walk with you—
while you save yourself.All you have to do is choose it.Choose to try.
Choose today.
Choose right now.
Choose yourself.That act regenerates the world.

Social Media

My content is really just my journey, recorded as it happens authentically. YouTube has the full archive with as few holes as possible, starting from the very beginning. I do collective readings, plant updates, occasional cosplay, and a lot of ranting.
Our Discord is still small, mostly friends and kindred spirits, but we’re always happy to welcome more.